Friday, March 14, 2008

There is always a beginning of something


As the first post, i want to share a simple words that onces impacted me alot. "There is always a beginning of something" maybe you guys might think that there is nothing to discuss about it, there is nothing special about it, but before you guys leave this page i want you guys think. Did you ever ask yourself: "Am i capable of doing this/that?" from my experiences of being listener of my friends i think everybody must have asked this question to him/herself, and obviously i was.

"Am i capable of doing this/that?" this question will always pop-out of our mind when you are doing something that you not familiar with, maybe something new, challenging or even something that you thought you will never ever do ( In Indonesia we called "sesuatu yang gak gua banget" ^^ sorry if you not undestand.) Hmm... the point is that we will doubt to do something that we never done before and makes you fall behind because you afraid of failing, and i think this is a big weakness of us. Why we should worried about can/can't do? Why don't we just do it and figure it out either we can/can't later?

Long time ago, i was a person that most of the time had this negative thought. With this negative thought, i was a person that almost never try something new, almost never do something that i not used to do and at that time i felt i was comfortable enough to live like that. Years past and i meet alot of different kind of persons. At that time the beginning of thoughts came to bother me, it really bother me so much, for example: "why i don't try it, seems interesting, seems fun but i don't have the courage to do it" at that moment, i began to feel that i was really far away from the others (always reject friends invitation -- maybe ashamed of myself ^^) and i think this motivated me to try something new. As i tried something new, i felt that it's really challenging, even that i failed so many times of trying but the feel of failing is different from what i was imagined before. The fails make more courages for me to try again and again untill satisfactions.

What iam trying to share here is that, don't ever think that "i can't do it, and i don't want to try it". Everything has its beginning point, let think like this: Do you think that the success of Bill Gates is because of that he was borned lucky, or borned smart so that he success? i don't think so, everyone borned with thier own speciality and we in-order to achieve it, we must try! Everything must begin from your own determination, once you have the determination and ofcourse with hard-work everything will be possible!

"Don't do something that you suppose to do, but do something that you want to do" ^^

Thank you for reading so far, hopes it will helps for something good.

Peace,
-Laziest-