Friendship Forever ^^

It's been a long time after the last entry ^^ , i've been busy doing my assignments that felt no end, but today i will share some of my experiences. In this post i want to share to you guys the importance of friendship.

If we think about the word 'Friendship', it will defined as a relation between two people that are friends. Actually the meaning of friendship is beyond it, did you ever think that what will happen when you lost your friends? or what will happen if you don't have friends? who gonna help you? who do you want to share your problems with? We can't live alone! Everything that you done in this world to survive is related to someone, maybe someone that not related to you directly but for sure there is always someone that related to what you do, someone that help you, someone that provide you with something, because we can't do everything by yourself.

In my experience, i'd join a camp that had activities that really challenging. One of the challenge is that we have to find our patner in pairs, one of us is blind folded (can see nothing) and the other one is hand tighted (can't move hands). Pairs are going to have lunch in that condition, it was really tough challege that challenging patience, teamwork and trusteeship. We have to be patience because it was really annoying when we can't use our full body to do something, and we have to rely on somebody else to do it for us. No teamwork no glory, if the team mess up with communication or loss of control it will be dissaster and both of the partners will get nothing to eat. And the last one is trusteeship, Trusteeship means the position or responsibility of a trustee. Without trusting each other, nothing could be accomplished. This challenge is one of my unforgetful experince that bring me to know clearly that importance of friends.

Maybe u had felt before that you need noone to live, u need noone help you to do things that you want. But think far, no body perfect, everyone have their own weaknesses. When your weaknesses beating you, who gonna help you to survive? who gonna give you advises? The answer is only one, "People that care about you, people that love you. Your Own Friends!"

Start to think about your friends, do they need helps? do they need advices? help them with your heart, and they will help you with their heart when you need them.

Peace,
-Laziest-

There is always a beginning of something

As the first post, i want to share a simple words that onces impacted me alot. "There is always a beginning of something" maybe you guys might think that there is nothing to discuss about it, there is nothing special about it, but before you guys leave this page i want you guys think. Did you ever ask yourself: "Am i capable of doing this/that?" from my experiences of being listener of my friends i think everybody must have asked this question to him/herself, and obviously i was.

"Am i capable of doing this/that?" this question will always pop-out of our mind when you are doing something that you not familiar with, maybe something new, challenging or even something that you thought you will never ever do ( In Indonesia we called "sesuatu yang gak gua banget" ^^ sorry if you not undestand.) Hmm... the point is that we will doubt to do something that we never done before and makes you fall behind because you afraid of failing, and i think this is a big weakness of us. Why we should worried about can/can't do? Why don't we just do it and figure it out either we can/can't later?

Long time ago, i was a person that most of the time had this negative thought. With this negative thought, i was a person that almost never try something new, almost never do something that i not used to do and at that time i felt i was comfortable enough to live like that. Years past and i meet alot of different kind of persons. At that time the beginning of thoughts came to bother me, it really bother me so much, for example: "why i don't try it, seems interesting, seems fun but i don't have the courage to do it" at that moment, i began to feel that i was really far away from the others (always reject friends invitation -- maybe ashamed of myself ^^) and i think this motivated me to try something new. As i tried something new, i felt that it's really challenging, even that i failed so many times of trying but the feel of failing is different from what i was imagined before. The fails make more courages for me to try again and again untill satisfactions.

What iam trying to share here is that, don't ever think that "i can't do it, and i don't want to try it". Everything has its beginning point, let think like this: Do you think that the success of Bill Gates is because of that he was borned lucky, or borned smart so that he success? i don't think so, everyone borned with thier own speciality and we in-order to achieve it, we must try! Everything must begin from your own determination, once you have the determination and ofcourse with hard-work everything will be possible!

"Don't do something that you suppose to do, but do something that you want to do" ^^

Thank you for reading so far, hopes it will helps for something good.

Peace,

-Laziest-